Different Types of Dildos Explained

Dildos are phallic-shaped sex toys used for internal stimulation of the vagina, anus, or mouth. Unlike vibrators, classic dildos do not have internal motors, though many modern styles include a vibrating feature. Because they come in countless shapes, sizes, and materials, understanding the different types can help you find the right fit for your body and preferences.

Types Based on Shape and Function

Dildos are categorized by how they look and how they are used:

Realistic Dildos: These toys look like a human penis. They feature lifelike details such as veins, a defined head, and sometimes testicles.

Non-Realistic Dildos: These feature smooth, abstract, or artistic shapes. They offer internal pressure without looking like human anatomy. Fantasy dildos—modeled after mythical creatures like dragons—also fall into this category.

G-Spot and Prostate Dildos: These toys have a specific curved tip. The curve is angled to press directly against the G-spot inside the vagina or the prostate inside the anus.

Suction Cup Dildos: These have a flat, sticky-style base. You can stick them to hard, smooth surfaces like floors, walls, or chairs for hands-free use.

Strap-On Dildos: These toys feature a flat flared base made to slide into a wearable harness. They are used by individuals or couples for hands-free penetration.

Double-Ended Dildos: These are long, flexible toys with shafts on both ends. They are designed for two partners to use at the same time, or for one person to achieve simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration.

Types Based on Material

The material of a dildo affects how it feels, how safe it is, and what kind of lubricant you must use:

Silicone: This is the most popular material. It can be soft and squishy or firm and rigid. Silicone is non-porous, meaning it does not trap bacteria and is highly sanitary. Note: You must only use water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as silicone-based lubricants will dissolve the material.

Glass and Metal: Made from borosilicate glass or stainless steel, these toys are completely rigid and smooth. They are non-porous and easy to clean. They also hold temperature well; you can warm them up or cool them down in water before use for temperature play.

Jelly and Soft Plastics: These are cheap, flexible materials often found in beginner kits. However, they are porous, meaning they have tiny microscopic holes that can trap bacteria even after washing. If you use a jelly toy, it is safest to cover it with a condom.